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Co-Parenting Tips For Divorced Parents

Parenting is a challenging job under the best of circumstances.   If you and your children’s other parent are divorced, it can become even more difficult and complex. Even if you and your ex are on good terms, the coordinating different schedules can become difficult. If you and your ex are not on good terms, dealing with all of the issues concerning your children can become extremely challenging. Fortunately, there are some tips that can help you tackle co-parenting, and if you have questions or concerns related to your child custody terms, do not wait to discuss them with an experienced Illinois child custody attorney.

Get Organized

One of the most difficult aspects of co-parenting is managing the array of information that comes your way and making sure that the decisions that need to get made for your children are made at the right time. Many kids today have busy schedules and getting to and from their activities, particularly if you have more than one child, can raise difficult scheduling and coordination issues.  When you fold in all the other demands you face as a parent, it can seem overwhelming at times. If you and your ex are able to work together – or at least collaborate on an app – there’s help available in the form of electronic scheduling tools, such as Our Family Wizard. These apps are designed to allow both of you to enter scheduling information and even to communicate with one another in a neutral space. Once you have all the information in one spot, it can make an immense difference in terms of keeping scheduling issues at bay. It also creates a record of your communications that is easy to access and monitor.

Communicate Openly

Some divorced parents have no trouble communicating and spending time together if needed, and others have a challenging time even being in the same room. Whatever your situation, effective co-parenting requires clear and timely communication. No matter how organized you are and how meticulously you maintain your schedule, obstacles and difficulties can arise. These can include the following:

  Someone’s schedule changes due to work,

  One of the parents or a child gets sick,

  A conflicting event arises.

Quick and clear communication is needed in these situations. While phone calls are quick, they do not leave a record of what was discussed and can lead to disputes and recriminations. Communicating by text is an option, but working with text communications can become difficult. Email, though an App like Our Family Wizard, can greatly help you communicate in a way that is clear and easy to work with.   Having a record of what was discussed and agreed upon that is easy to work with can help prevent disputes that require court intervention.

Remember That Your Children Love You Both

You and your ex may have a complicated or even hostile relationship, but it is important to remember that your children love you both. It is important for both parents to put aside their differences when they discuss the needs of their children and work on scheduling issues. Children love both of their parents, and it is extremely stressful and harmful to children to put them in the middle of a dispute between the parents. Unfortunately, when parents cannot work with one another, the children suffer the most.

Be Flexible

Having a good custody and parenting agreement plays a significant role in preventing disputes. Even the best parenting agreement cannot anticipate every situation you will face as a parent. Plans sometimes get upended and flexibility is important when the parenting agreement does not fully resolve the problem. Keeping your focus on the children and their needs is a critical first step. The next key step is having a clear and efficient way to communicate with your ex.

Reach Out To An Experienced Illinois Parenting Rights Attorney Today

The compassionate child custody attorneys at The Law Offices of George M. Sanders dedicate their practice to helping parents like you obtain parenting arrangements that work for them and help them become the successful co-parents they want to be. For more information, contact us today.

Contact Our Illinois Divorce & Custody Law Firm Today

You will find our attorneys to be flexible, responsive, and ready to begin providing exceptional representation to protect your rights and your best interests immediately. Call our law office now at 312-624-7645 to schedule a consultation about your family law needs at no initial charge.

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